Okay, let’s be real for a second. After a long week of dealing with kid drama (and I’m talking about everything from missing shoes to major meltdowns over the wrong color plate), sometimes you just need a break. And by break, I mean a solid kid-free night with your partner where you can actually hear each other talk, and maybe even enjoy a meal without someone asking for a straw every five minutes.
Lucky for us Tampa parents, this city has some seriously amazing spots where you and your significant other can sneak away for a night that doesn’t involve chasing a toddler around or wiping spaghetti sauce off someone’s face. If you’re looking for that perfect place to relax, eat, and maybe even have an adult conversation (gasp!), I’ve got you covered.
Photo: The seared tenderloin and lobster tail at Capital Grille – Tampa
1. Ulele
Oh, Ulele. This place has it all—delicious food, a beautiful location, and a vibe that says “I’m an adult and I’m having a fancy, relaxing meal… while my kids are with Grandma.” The best part? It’s located right on the river, so you get the bonus of stunning views. Imagine sipping a craft cocktail while the sun sets behind the skyline… Can we just take a moment for that image? It’s that kind of place where you feel special, like you’re on a real date and not just trying to remember if you packed extra snacks in the diaper bag.
2. The Capital Grille
Now, if you’re looking for a place to dress up (and maybe pretend you’re in a movie), The Capital Grille is your go-to. The steaks are perfection, the service is top-notch, and there’s something about the atmosphere that makes you feel like you’re truly on a night out. Dave and I went here a while ago for a little anniversary celebration, and let me tell you—it was everything we needed. There’s something about dining in a place where no one is asking for a refill of juice and instead, it’s just you, a nice glass of wine, and a quiet, romantic ambiance. It’s the adult experience we’ve been missing, and I’m here for it.
3. Bern’s Steak House
Okay, so we’re getting real fancy now. Bern’s is kind of a Tampa institution when it comes to fine dining, and if you’ve never been, you’re missing out. This is not just a meal, it’s an experience. From the moment you walk in, you know this is going to be special. The dim lighting, the elegant decor, and, of course, the food that will have you drooling just thinking about it. The best part? The dessert room. Yes, you heard me right. After your meal, you get to walk into a literal dessert room where you pick out your sweet treat. Trust me, the whole thing feels magical. It’s the perfect spot for a romantic, kid-free evening that will make you feel like you’re far away from all the daily chaos.
4. Ocean Prime
Ocean Prime is a modern, chic spot that screams date night. You’ll feel like you’re in the middle of a big city, but you’re actually just in the heart of Tampa. This restaurant is known for its seafood (hello, lobster bisque!) and elegant cocktails. Dave and I hit up Ocean Prime once for a special night out, and I was so focused on my plate that I forgot about the to-do list that always looms over my head. That’s the beauty of places like this—no kids pulling on your arm asking for another chicken nugget. Just a couple of hours to relax and enjoy each other’s company.
5. The Mill
If you’re in the mood for something a little more unique, The Mill is a great option. It’s got a super cool, rustic vibe with a menu full of modern twists on classic comfort food. Imagine roasted beets, pork belly, and yes—brussels sprouts (trust me, they’re actually delicious here). We took a chance and tried it a few months ago, and let me tell you, it’s definitely worth a visit. The atmosphere is cozy and warm, but still feels like a grown-up date night, which is perfect when you’re used to kiddie chaos 24/7. Bonus: the cocktails are on point, so you won’t leave thirsty (or disappointed).
6. Mise en Place
Mise en Place is one of those hidden gems that feels super exclusive. It’s intimate, quiet, and perfect for a date night where you actually get to taste your food without being interrupted by someone needing the bathroom every five minutes. The food is creative, fresh, and every bite feels like a fancy treat. If you and your partner are foodies who appreciate a well-crafted menu, this is your spot. Just make sure you don’t spill anything on your outfit—because, let’s face it, if you’re like me, you’ll likely end up wiping your face with a napkin at least once (or twice).
7. Ella’s Americana Folk Art Café
Now, I know this one is a little more casual, but hear me out. If you’re looking for a laid-back night with a lot of charm, Ella’s is a fun pick. With its quirky artwork, cool vibe, and mouthwatering Southern-inspired dishes, it’s a great place to just chill and enjoy each other’s company. You’ll feel like you’re at a friend’s house, but the friend happens to be a chef who makes ridiculously good comfort food. The laid-back feel means no one’s rushing you out, and you can actually have a real conversation—something you might have forgotten how to do.
You don’t need a week-long vacation to recharge your batteries as a mom (though, let’s be real, that would be nice). All you need is a good date night, a great restaurant, and the chance to reconnect with the person you were before the kids came along. Tampa’s got plenty of spots that can make that happen. Go ahead, book a sitter (you’ve earned it), and enjoy some actual grown-up time. You deserve it!